Apparently you've never been in acute benzo withdrawal! Her reaction was par for the course! (Sucks, I know, I've been there!)

Learning about important things on FB? So not cool. You are the GRANDMOTHER, you don't deserve to be notified whenever you happen to check your facebook feed! You deserve more respect than that! I mean you were notified about it at the same time as your daughter in laws random co-workers. Yes, you were put on the level of a random acquaintance! SO not cool!

I remember hearing this story about how this woman was in charge of notifying everyone of XYZ's death along with funeral arrangements. All she did was make a single facebook post and guess what? NOBODY showed up to the funeral, but weeks later when word got around, EVERYBODY was pissed! People are so stupid when it comes to social media. They think that it is an excuse for just plain bad behavior, along with the assumption that not only does *everybody* have a FB account, but that *everybody* checks it 24/7.