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Originally Posted by emptyspace
I feel my T is purposely crossing boundaries that I established and therefore making me spiral downward. I am not a new client either.
I don't think T's should do it. They never know what can happen when we leave their office.
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Does T not make sure that you are stable before leaving the office? Can you contact him/her out of session if you are triggered and need calming? Have you told her about the triggers; or she/he told you why they continue to cross those boundaries? Are they things that he/she could have forgotten? Could she be trying to assess how triggering the topic still is for you? Or maybe trying (ineffectively) to help you "get used" to those boundaries being pushed for whatever reason?