watch for triggers... why is she doing it, when, what's going on for her? Sounds as though she is very frightened and in need of empathy. You could help her 'name' her feelings: 'You might be feeling frightened/angry right now, but I can't let you hit me. If you need to hit something, hit this pillow...'. hold her hands/wrists/arms as gently as you can, to let her know that you won't let her hit you.
Have you thought about engaging her in some role play, with you and teddies/dolls? Small kids often process stress and trauma by repeating... role play can be a good outlet. You could start by saying this teddy is me, which is teddy is you?... and let her lead from there... it might not happen immediately but should do over time. Is she seeing a therapist? Good luck, sounds like you are doing a brilliant job!
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