Abilify can increase your blood sugar and of course can give you the non stop hunger and weigh gain. Lamictal is a mood stabilizer.

Have you asked your Pdoc about maybe taking the Abilify at nite if its the medication that is causing the sedation?

Ahh the age ole "what does normal feel like to Bp's" question... I think when your living your life and are excited about things, seeing a future for yourself, a feeling of "ease" with your body and mind .. Of course not Hypo/manic excited