Thread: Am I wrong?
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Old Oct 01, 2014, 07:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Amandasmom View Post
In the real world, if someone helped you create a plan and then you relapse, they would show emotions and be upset.
I don't think this premise is universal. I do not react in such a way when I have helped someone who failed to follow it. I especially do not react this way when working with students who are working to overcome anxiety and stress etc and have set backs.
My friends do not respond to me like this when they have helped me and I do something else. They do not get upset.
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