Hello akekaomen. Your situation sounds so much like mine. My job is a horrible stress factory, but I can't just up and quit. I too am the main breadwinner of my family. On top of that, with what little money my husband and I have we are trying to help our daughter who is struggling financially. We can barely pay the bills. No matter how hard I try at work, things always seem to go wrong. I am on anti-depressant meds prescribed by my primary doctor. I would like to see a therapist but I cannot afford to see one.

I wish I knew something good to tell you. I understand how you feel. I am sure you are a good husband and father. you are doing your personal best for your family and that is all you can do. Best wishes to you.