Yeah, I've gotten that complaint from men, starting with my dad. He would tell me to be more lady-like. Whatever. I'm a low maintenance gal, easily entertained. Guys don't have to spend a lot of money on me. They don't have to be at my beck and call. They love that until they realize that low maintenance and independent means that I don't dress to the nines a lot and I don't want to spend all my spare time with them. I think I'm living in the wrong part of the country.