Welcome to PC Miakoda!

For some reason or another, as a parent, I find it hard to see that my kids are adults. Old habits die hard....man oh man do they ever.

I think its hard for older parents to let go especially as they want to feel that they are still useful in our lives. They know you are an adult and all, but end up living vicariously through their childrens lives. Maybe if they had other activities to do with their time, some fun things, then they might back off of you a bit. Loneliness could also be a problem here.

The best thing I can suggest is to gently discuss with your mom that you would like to venture out alone at times. Promise her that if you need her advice you will ask for it, as you respect her knowledge.

I know it can be frustrating at times. I hope you can find the patience and strength to get through.

Hugsssss
J