Exactly, I'm more open minded and have grown enough emotionally to find in myself what I like, and appreciate it more, but it doesn't mean if it works for me it works for everyone of course. I'm glad you found what's best for you. I appreciate it when girls I like if I do bring it up whenever, to tell me if they like it or interested in it or not. The honesty is all I care about, but deep down I want to just for my own self interests in freedom and pursuit of having things I want to be done in my life.