I don't like people staring at me either but for other reasons. I've had a few incidences of being assaulted, people trying to pull me into their car, stalked, etc. I feel if people are staring at me I may be a target for some sort of future abuse. It is rare I feel safe enough to go walking alone. I used to dress nicely but would always get cat calls everytime I was out and that literally scared me. So now I dress like a slob in baggy clothing and nothing showing. If I'm with my husband no one makes those calls and I feel safer.

When I would dress in dresses or anything that might show clevage I felt uncomfortable, because I do realise people are looking or rather staring. Men talk to my boobs and they aren't even that big nor impressive. It makes me feel like an object and I hate it.