Oh, yes- the "ex" dreams...

I have them a few times a year- sometimes boyfriends from high school (12 years ago), sometimes people I was never with but had crushes on, and, worst of all, the person I had an affair with 3 years ago! They are never bad, like you sad, and they are usually not sexual, but they haunt me. Like running into someone from your past (that you'd prefer to keep in your past!) at the mall or something... It just gives me a creepy feeling in the pit of my stomach, so I know what you are saying. For me, it also makes me feel horribly guilty- why do these men come to me in dreams when I'm happier with my dh than I've been in a long time!

That is really crazy that you posted this today actually, because this happened to me just last night for the first time in a long time. And, to tell you the truth, I have been in a slump about it all day- "what does this mean?" "Should I feel guilty?" and reminiscing (sp?) and all that...

Thanks for posting!