I am struggling in my relationship with my husband. He is getting ready to be deployed for 2 years and we have been battling for about month. Neither of us has a clue what we are fighting about, but we are constantly biting each others heads off. Also, I am very much in touch with my emotions and he isn't, so therefore, I am always talking about how the girls and I are going to survive without him and how sad it will be and all of the stuff involved, and his way out of it is simply to say he doesn't want to talk about it. He says that he just wants to go over there, do his job and then come home to us. What if he doesn't come home? My girls are a nervous wreck at home and I am partly to blame. I am so unsure what to do to make him be honest about what he is feeling. He says he isn't sad at all.