Makes sooooo much sense...isn't it interesting how we begin to notice when others are not relating 'genuinely' with us.......lots of 'maladaptive behavior' and we pick up on it.....

Since beginning therapy I've nearly fully dropped an old friend....we just don't click anymore....I am outgrowing certain friendships....and picking up new, more emotionally developed friends....people who are self-aware.....not much 'maladaptive behavior' to speak of....I am more realistic about relationships too....not seeing them for who we 'need' them to be, but for who they really are....powerful lesson!