It sad to hear how thing we're since I am new to this as well. I hope you don't give up since this can be good if the members want it to be. I have noticed in my short time that some of the chats are superficial and laxidazical when it comes to any topic or meaning. I am trying to take what I can out of it. I am more then willing to write and talk to anyone. I try and get on once a day. My thoughts are with you. Be safe.