Leah123, I must admit that the most irritating thing my T ever did was pass judgement on the way I parent.
I told him he is not invited ever again to comment on my parenting technique.
I think you do a great job with your daughter and I'm sure that you can trust your own judgement as what is appropriate for her. You know though that Ts are just human beings and sometimes put their oar in where it's not warranted.