Thank you all for responding!

I am pretty sure that if I go without him, I will just be angry the whole time and not enjoy myself, so I am probably going to skip it. If I am going to be unhappy anyway, I might as well save my money and stay at home, you know?

When he came home from work today, he seemed surprised that I had not packed our camping gear (I normally do all the packing). All of a sudden he decided that we would do the foliage trip after all (after giving me the silent treatment all day - normally we email/text back and forth).

I told him that I didn't know how I could go after he had given me multiple reasons this morning for not going. I left the house because he is too frustrating to deal with (silent and angry) and he was gone when I got home forty minutes later.

I find that we often reach an impasse with stuff like this. He remembers conversations I don't and denies things that I remember. I forwarded him 'proof' of what I had said via email but he ignored it. He keeps telling me that it's a misunderstanding and I'm just like, yeah, you said one thing while you meant another.

I think that he just told me what he thought I wanted to hear? I have no idea - he seemed excited about it. He took time off from work-- and all of a sudden this morning he claims that he never wanted to go.

I'm still angry. Maybe I stay angry about this stuff too long.