Can anyone tell me how to deal with a significant other who thinks they have the answers to all my issues? What do you do when you love someone who tells you they're going to leave you if you can't "fix" your problems, but you don't know where to begin. I know my depression effects her in negative ways and God knows it's not my intention. To me, everyday I'm still walking, breathing and living in a victory. She's told me if I don't fix myself it's over... I work out of state, out of region. I live in Florida and have been in Vermont for the last 2 weeks. I'm depressed and probably more sucidal than I've ever been trying to provide and just do what a man should do yet when I have those lonely nights... usually every night... i hear how weak I am and how she's going to leave of I can't get my head right. Should I care? Should I keep trying to support her at the expense of my own personal well being? She doesn't, so I ask the forum... had anyone loved their significant other to the point they put their own well being at risk? I'm looking for any answers. Someone to talk me down. I fly out Sunday night and at this point suicide seems better. Why? ***** I don't know. I know those feelings aren't normal, but they're the only ones I have.