I've been in denial about my husband being abusive

I've been struggling with feeling like no one REALLY believed me until very very recently
And it is a HUGE weight off my back to no longer have to convince others of who he really is

I recently discovered that sexual coercion IS also abuse, EVEN if it's your husband... That it's NOT my duty to always say yes

I have yet to even bring that up to those who know he is abusive, im not ready for that fight of convincing