I've put in a trigger warning for discussion of human anatomy.

If I recall correctly, Bubonic, you're still a teenage girl with very little sexual experience. Is that correct? Your new toy is actually larger than the average human male. It's true that some men are bigger, but most men are smaller than the toy (according to measurements taken to make sure that condoms are manufactured correctly.)

For a young woman of little experience, it's probably better to start with a smaller toy, to use plenty of lube, and to stimulate yourself quite a bit before trying to use the toy. In this case, bigger is not better.

Just because your toy doesn't work for you, it doesn't mean you will never be able to have sex. I would be very surprised if the toy you described would work right away for most young, inexperienced girls. Trust me on this.

Before you become sexually active with a man, it would be wise to visit a doctor or nurse practitioner to discuss birth control and any concerns you have about the way your body is shaped and proportioned. Your anatomy is probably just fine.