I was in a really really rough spot like a month ago, and I was in my car crying while on the phone with T. (in a parking lot, I wasn't driving.. just fyi ha) Anyways, I guess she could tell how hurt I was (kind of hard not to, honestly) and said, "I wish I could give you a hug." So, next time I saw her after group I asked for that hug. Even knowing it would be okay, asking her was still hard. Now she asks, usually after a tough session.