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Originally Posted by Patagonia
I wish my T would ask more about my parts so they would feel safer to come out. Only one has & it's been thru email only.
Sometimes she acknowledges that there is a change & welcomes it, but that's it. It's just too scary to make any presence known & they want so badly to trust her & have a voice. Their dying for her attention!
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I agree - this is important for safety for the system. Seems so many will "only work with those that present themselves" or "I will only work with the adult self". I've had both those things said to me. :/ The others likely won't come out - like you say - if they don't feel safe enough to trust an outsider. (or mine might come out if something T says REALLY pisses them off). I wonder if your T thinks it would be a good idea or not for others to come out, or if she would welcome change but doesn't want to push you? I hope for you that there will be more comfort there to work with. Thanks for posting!
Kiya
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