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Originally Posted by Mikeyboy
I'm not really sure in terms of what you guys agreed upon, I have a hard time interpreting situations like that and what might have been technically agreed upon. But I do think it'd probably be a good idea to reach out to her anyway, whatever the technical agreement may have been.
Hope you feel better.  |
Thanks; I actually feel just fine I just don't wanna break any deals.
I, too, have a hard time figuring out this kind of thing too lol.
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Originally Posted by seekersinking
Teal, you mentioned how important your trust in her & relationship with her is so important to you. JMO, if you feel you need to hide this, then your relationship may need some work. Our relationships with our T's is about getting well.
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I don't necessarily feel the need to hide it. I just prefer not to contact her or bother her outside of session if not necessary. I would be willing to tell her next session, but if this was part of the agreement, because our relationship works, I want to hold up my end.
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Originally Posted by ThisWayOut
Does your hesitation to tell her about this have anything to do with not contacting her before the incident? Or not having wanted her to encourage you to cope in a different way? Or feeling like this may be a disappointment to t? Where does your reluctance to tell her come from?
I think it would be good to tell her regardless of whether or not it falls under your agreement...
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My hesitation mostly has to do with if i'm supposed to tell her or not. I don't necessarily report "all self harm" to her. I'm just referring to this one incident that fell during the agreement time. Although, I did consider that I probably should have told her
before I did it - but that's too late now. I think I will just go ahead and inform her but I'm not sure it applies. Perhaps to be safe though.
Thanks everyone!