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Old Oct 03, 2014, 06:06 AM
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Originally Posted by Partless View Post
But on another level...screw rationalization, I want intimacy!

But using this sentence as a jumping off point, intimacy takes too much damn work. Being alone is comfortable in that I don't have to get to know another person's foibles and what makes them tick. I don't have to guard my words and thoughts. I don't have to fear trusting the untrustworthy again.

Being comfortable alone is a skill I never learned. I am getting better at it, but that takes work as well. Codependency R Me!


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