Possibly people are at different levels of healing and it would be very difficult to just control thier depression. Each individual is so different and reacts accordingly. Unfortunately for many to just stop being depressed is not an option as there is more to it.

I am so glad that you have found your way to happiness. That is the important thing. And you are so right you can not change the past. Sometimes it just takes a while to process. Again I am so happy for your growth and healing. I hope eveyone can find the peace and happiness you seem to have. Take care.

BB