It may be true that you will never please her. She may be criticising thinking it is helpful information but I doubt that, more likely there is something about her personality making her so critical and therefore the events that provoke critism have nothing at all to do with what she is critisizing you for. It is a hard road but the goal is to please yourself and not anyone else.

As far as the "two jobs" comment that seems just hurtful and not at all grouned in reality. Whether a person can comfortably work two jobs depends on a lot of things... the hours of those two jobs and how well the shifts "mesh", how much stress each job generates, how much energy each job takes. Working two shifts at a bakery decorating cakes is going to be a different task than working two shifts at the DMV dealing with angry people all day. To make an across the board comparison makes no sense.

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