This whole thread is making me sad . I am usually the "creepy" guy who is trying to just talk and get to know somebody. I didn't know little questions about how you are doing can be considered controlling. I also didn't know that so many people would view this in this kind of way. When things like this happen to me i mean you did bring him over your house to hang out. Did you be blunt with him and tell him it wasnt romantic? Maybe he has little contact and interaction with the opposite sex.