I'm really tempted to email him telling him to leave me alone. I'm uncertain because i think writing notes is the coward's way out. I would like to be assertive enough to tell him face-to-face.

Also, i talked it over with my doctor and he said NOT to confront the guy in any way as that would just engage him. My doctor said just to discourage him with one word answers.

The problem is, it's been a year and a half and the guy is still persisting. It's not idle questions about how i am doing, it's inappropriate questions about my love life, finances and religion.

IDK... Should i just write him and tell him his questions make me uncomfortable and to leave me alone?