So I have known my colleague T for a long time. 5 years in fact and I have watched her children grow up, looked after the children at work and privately and so I am quite surprised at the following...I heard through someone else that T and her family are moving abroard on Friday. I feel quite hurt as she didn't tell me herself and was no doubt going to go without saying goodbye . It is not like we were friends as such but I thought I meant more then that and can't help but feel a bit stung by it.