Your SO does sound completely unsympathetic. Its never just about the ill (for lack of a better term) person fixing themselves. The relationship needs work, too. I have a feeling that you may have a long term issue with depression, so its not just a matter of fixing yourself. Its a matter of healing to the best of your ability, and if you still have symptoms then you need to learn to deal with them the best that you can. But "fix" yourself? I see this as a losing battle. If your SO doesn't support you at all, then why be with her?