I have histamine and ptsd. Something I react to raises histamine. The body regulates histamine my releasing adrenaline, the fight or flight hormone. Its been proven that raising adrenaline can trigger flashbacks. One of the things we have to do about ptsd is train our character so we can be screaming mad and not behave shamefully. Its impossible but we can try (coming from a fifty year old who made the talky hand at her mother this week).

I hear you too about changing your situation and being emotional about it. And I think im not too wrong about injecting in there that maybe you think you light to stay with your dad to look after him. Its hard to go at any age. We dont have them forever. Youll work that out.

Never underestimate the benefits of good allergy medicine.

Your dad is right. Move on. Its over. Dads dont get old without saying things in anger they regret to people they love. He understands.

A nasal steroid is a wonderful thing.