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Originally Posted by Nature1968
I know how you feel .. I have a friend from grade school who I found on FB and it's like pulling teeth for her to talk to me .
She never e-mails me I always have to e-mail her if I want to talk and she always says she has to go , so I said then e-mail me when u can talk .. nope she doesn't ever e-mail me .
I have learned that on line friends come in your life one day and boom gone the next as if it never happened . It stinks how easy people can drop you without even giving you a reason , just makes you feel , like your not worth there time .
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Yeah it sucks .I guess that you reconnected and thought things would be great since you knew each other way back un grade school but no.
Yeah It doesn't make me feel like I'm not worth it but It's just hard to process when it's the forst time it's really happening to you.
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Originally Posted by JadeAmethyst
I had a similar situation: a person I do not see, but a telephone contact.
We have some similar interests, but the conversations started to be her talking and the time spent got to be excessive. I informed her that I needed to limit the time on the phone, and she was offended and defensive and she wanted to know why? This happened over a period of time...so.....I told her that we can email. Maybe this will work for us for now. We will see.
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I hope it works out.At least you were decent enough to let her know why the telephone didn't work out.I command your honesty.
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Originally Posted by recovering recovery
Easy come, easy go. I've seen it happen a lot, saw people get a little too attached to me and had to stop replying because I wasn't as interested in them as I used to be, and also all of a sudden stopped getting replied to for absolutely no reason. I thought we were going to be friends but now I'm being ignored? No reason to question yourself, just learn from this experience and move on.
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why weren't you as interested as you used to be?Running out of things to talk about,time ?I am curious
I feel much better about it.You know It was the first time I got attached and trusted somebody online.Our friendship started at a high intensity and it was really brutal how it stopped.Last time we talked It was fine.I really don't think the famous"People grow apart apply" because it wasn't gradual at all but you're right no reason to question anything.I DEFINITELY learned from it and I won't let anything like it happen again.I just thought it was crazy how one day you can profess your love and friendship ,talking about sister,about meeting (we live in the same city), and what not and just boooom silent treatment but yeah It is what it is .
I don't even wanna go back to all the moments we had,that seemed genuine and authentic to me,that I question now.
I am definitzly pumping the brake on this and move on.I needed advice because I just couldn't understand it yeah Life goes on...
I considered before emailing her to ask but I've decided to accept the status of the friendship.I've also thought of unfollowing her because it's annoying stumble upon them tweets or posts in that forum that I rarely visit...I didn't because I hate drama...