This isn't therapy.
This and the inappropriate sensual contact described so explicitly in the last two threads sound more like a fantasy of therapy gone wrong than reality. (http://forums.psychcentral.com/psych...oundaries.html)
What are you looking for here?

20+ folks have already said it is critically important to leave this therapist so that's not the answer- maybe you could clarify what you'd like to hear or what would be helpful?