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Maybe he is pointing out that you did not truly know your husbands or what you wanted and thus, like your husbands you do not truly know him.

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Good insight here Secret! We have discussed how 'quick' I jump into relationships and for the wrong reasons. It is usually the 'bad boy' types that get me <giggle>. So, the two times I married, I married 'safe'.

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Otherwise...I have appreciated not really knowing my doc as I do not then need to take care of him as much as I felt I needed to do with my previous T.

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I want to take care of my T, and his assistant now! they are both sweet people and have certainly been good to me. This is one of my patterns, taking care of other people. It keeps my mind off of my problems and it makes others happy.

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He has boundaries to protect his home life and professional life those are apparent.

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And I know deep down they need to protect us and themselves. I'm still going to secretly hope he and I can stay in touch later on, after I graduate. If that is something he's comfortable with and wants himself. He has done so much to help me and I truly like him. I want to pay him back in friendship. My dad always said if someone is good to you, you take care of them because there aren't many people in life a person can count on...

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He likes sex.. doggie style...lol... he perked up one time on that and that was not even what we were talking about..lol

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I've seen my T perk up on a few comments I've made too. He's very comfortable talking about this topic and is never inappropriate about it so works for me!