Well, he's not doing anything surprising. You went ahead and e-mailed him and now you're annoyed that he didn't respond as you want? You say you don't need 2 sessions in a week, and just 5 minutes on the phone: so clearly, this isn't an emergency. I think from your T's perspective, it looks like you just want your hand held, and your T doesn't consider that therapy or appropriate. If you can't live with his perspective, find another T.