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SecretGarden said:
I have a fantasy that I will one day get married and send him an invitation. I know he would not come... but he would be happy for me.

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I sent mine (who I'd terminated with a year or two earlier but still sent a letter or two to occasionally) a wedding picture afterward :-) I couldn't ask her to the ceremony as I figured she'd decline and the whole parental group having to know "who" she was and why I was inviting her, etc.