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I don't think you can help this time, Rhapsody, and I can't see that child services or whoever are going to just let you take (hide?) the child? I imagine if the whole thing is a lie it will all get sorted or and/or child services will contact you (rather than a foster home necessarily, they have some trouble finding them and they cost money) when/if they're looking.

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Yeah I know that no one can hide the child or the grandfather (and we don't want to do that)....... it just happened that both of them were gone out of the house when the DCF worker came over - no one knew she was coming.

And NO - I do not believe the DCF will let the child stay until they get things worked out - sorted out - for they stated up front "WE will NOT leave until WE have THEM BOTH to go with us" - Foster Care - until this matter is taken care of.
SIGH - all of this based on one stupid accusation....

..... some times the SYSTEM does in deed SUCK!! - IMO.

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My husband just stopped by the house to get some thing to eat and he said - we can take her today if needed so she does not have to go into foster care - but that we will have to talk more about it before we can make a longer commitment past a week.