I was an emotional surrogate husband to my mother because I was the oldest boy and my dad was not what you call emotionally available. I have never thought of enmeshment is such broad terms as the whole family though. I always thought we all take on different roles and enmeshment is a part of that.
I think of it as - if you are too enmeshed with someone you will put their needs and wants ahead of your own healthy needs. Being so wrapped up in someone else's problems and having a need to fix them that you ignore your own needs.
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Anxiety Disorder with some paranoid delusions thrown in for fun.
Recovering Alcoholic and Addict
Possibly on low end of bi polar spectrum...trying to decide.
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Lamictal 100mg
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