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Old Oct 04, 2014, 11:27 AM
guilloche guilloche is offline
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Please forgive any typos... My computer is down and I am on a tablet.

Someone once told me that 'it's better to be alone than wish you were'

I honestly think you'd be better with no t than this guy. He's being inappropriate, period. And you realize that, or you wouldn't have posted asking about it. I don't know what his end game is here. But I can't imagine ANY way that it ends and you are not hurt.

So, the way I see it... you can end now...even if painful and go forward with someone else to work on your current issues... our end later and have to deal with your current issues PLUS all the new issues this guy will cause. As hard as it is too end now... My guess is it will be a million times harder to start over later after you have had your trust shattered by this guy (not to mention the money you'll waste with him).

In the end its your therapy and your choice of course. But it might be helpful to think about where you may end up if you stay on this road and how it will affect you if this goes as bad as most people here think it will....

If you really can't beat to leave, please consider the advice you've gotten to talk to a different t for some help. I'd also recommend asking him outright if you can try a session with NO touch... just talking, and see what happens.

Good luck
Thanks for this!
pmbm