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Originally Posted by 8888an8888
That sounds really difficult. A heavy session.
I feel like your t isn't listening to you properly. Were you trying to get some clarification on termination and actually sort it out? Because she appeared to shut you down and mask it with security, when what you needed was a clear discussion, nothing brushed under the carpet.
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i haven't reported the whole conversation. I think she is listening to me because of all the things she does for me. I would say the previous time, she totally didn't get it that I'm not ready but she was connected again last time. I think she genuinely cares but also takes what I say. we actually ran over by 25 minutes because of this conversation and her being so direct I think is a way to show me she really means it (I have always noticed this attitude) and help me since she knows I really struggle asking for anything so I know she does "for me" trying to meet my needs.
actually I feel ok because she looked really happy that I had brought it up so I was wondering if she was testing me. but I liked your feedback also because "insisting" on things is really not something I manage to do since speaking up has always been a huge problem to me. What did you mean by her not listening this time? thanks!