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Originally Posted by TheMagicFingernail
Hey guys
My boyfriend broke up with me two days ago (I'd seen it coming for two days) and I am really confused.
He said:
"I *really* like you"
"Of course I'm going to miss you"
"You need someone who loves you"
"I dont want to hurt you anymore, I can see that I am"
We had a PERFECT relationship and I was his best friend, the person who he always came to to share his frustrations and joys. The break up happened right after a fight - he is going away in January; I told him he was being insensitive to not act like he was going to miss me when he went away and he told me he needed space then two days later, bam.
I don't really know what to do? I'm trying the silent treatment now. But he acted like he was obsessed with me, there was never a moment when we weren't in contact, he was constantly touching me and being touchy feely, he was basically all over me all the time. It's weird for him to just drop me so easily.
WHAT THE HELL DO I DO
And what does this mean?
Thank you
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Hello The MagicFingernail: I'm sorry this happened to you. I don't know your ages. If you & your bf are young, my inclination would be to say this is just how young guys are (I sort-of was one many years ago.) It's also possible your bf has some other things going on that he's having difficulty handing & you have just become collateral damage.
From my perspective, I don't know there is anything to be done. He's said good-bye & that's it. Perhaps he never did really love you. He may have just liked touching you. And now he's going away, that will no longer be an option. If that is the case, then perhaps his dropping you is a blessing in disguise (?). You mentioned you're giving him the silent treatment now. But, hopefully, he knows you care for him (assuming you still do.) Beyond that what occurs to me is, in the words of the old saying: "set him free. If he comes back to you, he's yours. If he does not, he never was..." My best wishes to you...
