This relates to me on such a high level, I definitely am this type and I can see in my family members as well. I can tell my dad and brother have this. My moms the type to pursue conflict and that puts a lot of pressure on all three of us. So we avoid a lot. This is why my family is majorly dysfunctional, this is one of the many reasons why, but I know it can't be helped. It was very enlightening to know though. Thanks for sharing!