I don't want to be harsh with her and I should be understanding because like I said, I have anxiety issues as well but I'm more liable to bottle things up. That's probably not very healthy though but it works if only for a little while. We are starting a business together and we both need to be functional for that. What do you mean when you say to support? I don't want to say the wrong thing and make it worse. I usually try not to say anything to both sisters when they are stressed for some reason. I don't know if she can get therapy because she's now has no health insurance (which was her response when I brought up that she should go).