Oh guys...I have my "own" counseling tonight. Thanks for saying I'm young...all of you. But I've been thru a divorce once and it's much easier said than done, even if it is the right thing to do. I am so sad! I agree with you all that say it's emotional abuse...I've been feeling that for a long time. But guess what? At counseling together the other night, she wouldn't let us "hash" out our issues...and she was so "partial" to him....I just couldn't scream out everything insecurity I had and he even told her, "Look, I'm wearing my ring and no, she didn't show me love like she said she would once I put it on." By the way, I never said, "I'll show you love as soon as you put it on."

All she told us to do was talk positive to each other. Well, I am seeking counseling on MY OWN so that I can express to someone how I'm feeling and find out how to deal with it.

Last week he suggested I get a private investigator...even he said this all sounds fishy. But my hubby is always the "center of attention" the "funny guy who makes everyone laugh" "the one everyone goes to for counseling" - he is a charmer...but what everyone sees is not what I get at home. AND................he told the counselor that he never knows what he is going to get when he walks in the door at night...a happy or sad person.......

Thanks for letting me vent...keep up the words that make me feel TOUGH, even if for that moment.