Even when we first met 9 yrs ago, he wasn't working never having any money. He quit this one job because it was all commission, worked there for a year with no pay (he got paid 3 times that was it), and since then it was very hard for him to get a job although he has more customer service experience than me. No, he has no idea that I kissed this other guy and he would be furious if he know who it is! Our relationship is based on having an open relationship where I could date women not other men.

I haven't had the talk with him yet. The Army guy wants an answer, even though he said he wants to take things slow as well.