My husband did that early on in our marriage and it made me feel terrible about myself. To me when he looks at other women he really does not want me. My self esteem and self worth as a woman has taken a beating over the years.

All I can say it do something for yourself and don't give him control of your self worth. Pamper yourself, take a class or join a group like a book club. My life used to revolve around my husband and I was miserable.

Over the years he is not so obvious but it still hurts.