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I couldn't ask her to the ceremony as I figured she'd decline and the whole parental group having to know "who" she was and why I was inviting her, etc.

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Ain't that the truth....lol....

I went to a funeral once of a friend of the family that my first pdoc knew. My first pdoc had retired and though in a suit had grown his hair out. I do not think my brother quite got the connection as I told my sister... but he asked who that bumpkin was.....lol... I did not answer... though my sister might have...