ShyIntrovert: She'll take the money, but she doesn't want to give anything in return. Since I know that she cannot pay me back financially and that she doesn't want to receive a handout, I asked her to clean for me. She refuses to let her boyfriend to buy her drinks when they go out. I'm shocked that she objected to the work-money exchange. Don't know what's going on with her in that regard. She just had a death in the family this morning, so I probably won't hear from her for awhile.