I don't think you're being overly sensitive at all. It's sad that your colleague was going to leave without a word to you. Even though you were not super close, you watched her children and had some kind of friendship over the last 5 yrs. I would definitely approach her with the information you've been told, if for no other reason than to verify it is true. I would not let her go without giving her the opportunity to explain herself. Maybe she really likes you and feels bad about telling you she's leaving. It's best to find out the real story.
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Originally Posted by Karchaman
People can be a disappointment, what we think is special, isn't necessarily what the other person feels. It's happened to me, it's not a good feeling. But it's a lesson. Hi, I'm new to this site looking forward to joining in.
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I've been disappointed too but I would like to know what the lesson is that you learned from this? That other people just use you? Is that the lesson?