Stay away from the penitentiary sites! There is a site I belong to called pen pal world. I know there are others out there. I don't know if there is a site specifically for telephone friends, but a lot of people on the pen pal site end up skyping or saying in their profile that they would like Skype friends. I use Skype as a phone and don't do the video part. I have the Skype app on my smartphone. I like it as you can talk to people without having to give out your phone number.