I already posted there and got some responses. I got told I am cheating no different than him cybering with women online and also posting an ad last year online to find a sugar momma so we can have money while I was in therapy! Also, my boyfriend wants to have kids with me and looked at him saying you have a problem there's no way you could be attentive to me and the kids while you're still on the computer. He said he can be attentive to me and the future kids. I don't see that happening as I was told by someone at Shabbat that it would be a disaster and miserable for me.